还有一件值得高兴的事情，是Mark Owen结婚了，这个老男人以前在Take That乐队的时候我就很看好他，How deep is your love 是俺英语的启蒙歌曲之一。后来团员Robbin Williams单飞了，Mark Owen也出了自己的专辑，不过Mark出专辑的速度似乎很慢，我在市面上唯一见到就两盘专辑。而最最好听的则是他的第一盘专辑 GREEN MAN。其中Green Man，Child，以及Clementine这几首歌是要隆重推荐给大家的。不过，按照shuojun的话讲，Mark的歌曲确实有点忧郁。其实呢，他一方面是确实表现出一个剩男的抑郁闷骚（他最闷骚的一句话说 dead for a while and resurrect with a smile），另一方面也体现出一位老男人浩瀚无垠的父爱(Child这首歌 一定要听的吧。)。。不过他今儿个终于结婚了，婚礼很低调，Mark 和嫂子都很幸福，祝福他们，感触呀，每一个男人不论多阴郁都会有自己最幸福的时刻，every dog has his day！
I have to say I love small babies. The baby in this frame was wearing a red coat, and learning to walk with someone’s help. I cannot tell he is the baby’s father or other relative. But we can see a lovely baby has attracted by the elder man who was helping someone else to pull the Donkey Cart. He must say, “Oh, what a lovely baby, when I get enough money from working in the capital, I will go to my home town, marry a girl and have my own lovely child.” on the left, there was another elder gentleman who pointed at the child, I guess he must be an educated man, he spoke to the man, “This kid would definitely have a brand future!” And he also said, “it is the first step to learn to walk, When the kid is at his five, he need to learn how to behave, such as cleaning the house and watering yard , at the age of fifteen, he must learn the great learning.” I guess the elder man is trying to cultivate the small baby according the words from “preface of great learning(大学章句)”.
However, I guess there might be another story in this frame, the man did not take good care of the baby and let the baby play on the street alone, and a donkey cart was going by and almost ran into the small baby. At this important moment, the driver turned the cart to the left, and avoids hurting the baby. So the man on the right who helping driving the cart, shout at the small baby and his/her relative, “watch out, young man, do not let a small child playing on a crowd street, it is dangerous!” At this meantime, an elder elite came by, pointed to the kid, and taught the young man a lesson “next time, you should take good care of your child; it is your responsibility to do that.”
In sum, no matter which scene described above happened on the frame, it all showed a kind of benevolence(仁). Benevolence is one of the primary doctrines indicated by Mencius. As he said, “仁者人（爱人）也，亲亲为大；义者宜也，尊贤为大；亲亲之杀，尊贤之等，礼所生焉。”In my own perspective, this specific scene has reflect a flank of Song society, which is one with benevolence, if so , when we compared with the contemporary China, it is a kind of harmonious society (和谐社会) somehow?
 Ebrey, Patricia. 1984.“Conceptions of the Family in the Song Dynasty.” Journalof Asian Studies 43: 219-45.
 Baogang Guo. 2008. “China in Search of a Harmonious Society” . Rowman & Littlefield, 2008: 14-15